Monthly Archives: February 2012




does not always mean you are wrong and the other person is right.

It just means you value your relationship more than your ego.

It’s Not About ‘Changing The World’


We often like to say “I’m going to change the world.” I’ve been a huge advocate of the saying for years but I’ve started to realize something.

The world is ALWAYS changing… every minute…. every second… the world changes. So when you think about it, every day we’re changing the world whether we know it or not. Every action and no action changes the world in some way.

What we should really be saying is “I’m going to change my perception of the world.” You see all we have are perceptions of the world. Just as someone can see the glass as half empty and another can see the exact same glass as half full shows us we live with nothing but perceptions of the world. These perceptions dictate our attitude and how we live. So if we change our perception of the world and start to see everything we have rather than don’t have, or everything we’re capable of rather than the excuses we can’t do something we’ll be seeing the world from a perspective that aims at making the world work. Once we see it, others will want to see it too.

To make a difference we must first choose our perceptions, believe in them and act on them. This is the true essence of leadership.

From Ryan Coelho



Imagine there’s no heaven
It’s easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people living for today

Imagine there’s no countries
It isn’t hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people living life in peace

You, you may say
I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one
I hope some day you’ll join us
And the world will be as one

Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people sharing all the world

You, you may say
I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one
I hope some day you’ll join us
And the world will live as one

Be-Do-Have paradigm


Today I watched another episode of self-awareness 101 about taking responsibility for yourself and I really like what he said about Be-Do-have

“you will find that who you thought you were, has nothing to do with who you really are.”

“Most people live their lives thinking, “If I want to have “X” in my life, then I need to do this. And by doing this, I’ll have what I desire, and then I’ll be able to be the person that I desire to be.” That is the Do-Have-Be paradigm. The challenge is, it doesn’t work. There is a paradigm that I have referred to before called the Be-Do-Have paradigm. The way that you truly create the life that you desire is by being that person first. Knowing who it is that you desire to be. By knowing that, by being certain of that, then you will do, what needs to be done, that will allow you to have what you desire.”

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